Adult Children Living at Home
Being a adult living in your parents house in modern days is common. About 25 portent of adults between 20 and 30 years lives in their parents homes.
Obviously that's comfort to the kid, but for the parents it's stressful. Most of the time, the child return to home because of a problem, being economic, social or personal. A good part of those adults are unemployed, and doesn't contribute economically to the family.
Pros
- When you are the adult, you don't pay rent, or pay the house. Usually you only contribute to food, water or electricity.
- Most of the time your parents clean the house so you don't move a finger. Maybe you only clean your bed and your room.
- You can go out and don't worry about the house, because is secure with your parents in it.
Contras
- The relationship with your parents can decrease
- This problem can provoke a situation of stress to both of the parents and the child.
- This situation also can reduce the dependency of the adult/child.
- If you are the child, don't ask for privacy, because it isn't your house.
The situation of having a child adult living in home can be stressful, because at the same time he wants a support, he demands privacy for his own things. Also this destroy the relationship of the child and the parents, because most of the children's doesn't want to obey (again) their parents rules. The best situation is to create rules and make the children to obey them, or take them out of the house.
